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Adopt Me! My name is Black Dog. I need a new forever home because I lost my best friend. I'm not an "emergency" case as I am staying with Joe's mother while she and his sister Eileen are making calls and posting flyers about me. You can read more about me below (which will be included on my posters with contact info), but first you need to know why my story is featured here. A death in the family is one of very few legitimate reasons for any animal to suddenly be in need of a new home. This page is intended to serve as an example for ideas to make up your own special-case flyers/poster/pages for distribution. Rescue organizations do the best they can against ever-increasing odds, however, no one can save them all. In public facilities, one more in means one more has to die. Even no-kill shelters cannot absolutely offer that guarantee, that is, IF room is available in the first place. Most have long waiting lists. Whatever a person or family can do to provide temporary accommodations buys more time for other innocents already waiting on death row. From Eileen: I am writing in the hopes of finding either a rescue organization or a loving home for a very special black Lab. Black Dog belonged to my brother Joe until Joe's recent and tragic death on March 22nd.
About five years ago Joe
found a young, skinny, and very skittish Lab pup at the 7-11 near his home in Richmond,
VA. I laugh every time I think about how he coaxed that pup into his truck with hot dogs
from the store. He kept that pup, along with his yellow Lab/chow mix Taz. The dogs
loved each other and loved my brother. Black Dog is a jolly dog, full of life, kisses, and
good will.
On February 15, Mom and I,
who live in Elmira, NY took my brother into a local medical center for a long awaited hip
replacement, in Richmond. The operation went wonderfully and Joe was up on his new hip the
next day! I stayed on for another day then went back home to my family and job. The very
next day Joe began running a very high fever and couldn't get his breath. They rushed him
to the ICU and put him into an induced coma on life support. He had pneumonia that took a
sudden and deadly turn to Acute Respiratory Distress Syndrome. I returned to help my
mother cope and to encourage my brother to fight it off. We stayed at his home with Taz
and Black Dog. One month later my brother died.
My mom, who is 75 years
old, brought both dogs home to New York intending on keeping them. My husband fenced the
back yard for her right after their return. Almost immediately Mom realized that she
cannot cope with both the dogs. Black Dog, most definitely in response to Joe's death, has
become very insecure when left in the yard for more than a few minutes. He began chewing
on the siding next to the outside door any time she left the house. He is a perfect
gentleman inside the house, but is in distress when left outside.
Both my sister and I are
animal lovers but are unable to take Black Dog. We have three German shepherds, three
cats, fish and a bird to care for now. My sister has two dogs, four cats, fish and a frog
at her home. None of us want to see Black Dog go to a shelter. We are desperately seeking
a loving home for him.
Black Dog has been
neutered. He was not raised with cats but seems to get along well with Mom's cat. We need
to catch him up on shots but that will be done shortly. He is friendly to everyone. He is
housebroken. He is used to a lot of affection and love. Can you help us find him a
wonderful home?
I have been researching rescue groups but most of them operate within a small boundary. The closest we have come is Rochester, NY. I have sent that group a similar request and have yet to hear back. Several other groups in Long Island and Pennsylvania are just too far away.
Please feel free to share
Black Dog's story. Maybe someone will take pity on him and welcome him into his or her
home.
In reply to Eileen: I understand, always thought separation anxiety was a crock until I witnessed it. Have you tried a listing on PetFinder? http://www.petfinder.com/post/classifiedhop.html It's free for 14 days. I don't know how well it works for private listings, I do know many, many shelters/rescues use it with great results. In fact, my sister who does rescue in TX says at least 75 percent of their calls come from PF listings. That same sister happens to be a Lab person, that's the good news. The bad news is I have no idea what contacts she might have at any particular time. I will forward your note to her. In the meantime, write up a full description for Black Dog. You'll get an idea by reading others on PF - the more info, good and bad - the better. Also you'll need a picture. Do a search for Lab rescue, and contact any you haven't already. Be sure to go to each link page, most breed-specific groups are connected all over the country. You might find a few newsletter contacts along the way too. It's "normal" to post special cases to lists. Now about the chewing ... the only way to stop it is keeping Black Dog out of reach. Get a good, strong tie-out chain, the kind with plastic coating. They usually come with stakes that screw into the ground, or you can hook to a tree. Black Dog will need a harness too. Collars are too easy to slip. I know that sounds silly when you just put up a fence, but as I tell my problem child who is a climber, he cooked his own goose until we can afford a higher fence. Of course I feel like a big meanie not letting Scoopy run when the other two can. However, delinquents though they are in their own way, they do have the good sense not to attempt escapes. So, good luck! Be persistent, follow all leads, and you could even put up notices at grocery stores, take flyers to vets, or just about any place. Main thing: NEVER say free to a good home. People who pick up animals that way do not have nice plans for them. After I forwarded Eileen's note to my sister: Also encourage her to do a home visit. They should look for a solidly built fence with no holes, make sure he will be able to stay inside also and not just be stuck in the back yard. He needs companionship or he will tear the place apart out of boredom and might even jump the fence. The new family needs to understand about Labs. I'll do what I can on this end. If you're not handy with the computer, I'd be happy to make up a page you could print for flyers. Really no big deal, just need the info and a pic. Once I do the page, it can be used as an example for others to follow. (And so I did.) Back to Eileen: I am indeed "handy" with a computer. I will go forward with a search for a home and run off some flyers. My biggest fear is not knowing what kind of home he might go to, despite talking to prospective owners. I'll keep you up on my progress. Back to Martha: If anybody balks at the home visit, that tells you no way. Do let me know when you have Black Dog placed. Kind of feel like I know him now. And, when I said good and bad, I should have said positive and negative - all he really needs is more attention. Actually that speaks well of your brother. Black Dog is missing Joe. I'm sure you know Labs are usually great with kids. He just needs one or two to spend that energy on. Then Eileen told me she was going to contact the "people" columnist at her local newspaper, "I'm sure a human interest story like this would find Black Dog a good home." Excellent idea, but don't be too disappointed if the paper isn't interested. I can almost hear someone saying, "If we run a story like that once we'd have to do it for everybody." Don't let me discourage you though. Your chances will be better if you have the flyers ready to go. Wouldn't be a bad idea to drop into the paper's office armed with the full story (typed as a press release, with pic) and ready to be interviewed. That will put the focus on you as a good neighbor, going the extra mile for a special dog. Success will most likely depend on how backed up the columnist is on people stories and/or who's not busy at the time, and space as it becomes available. Stress that this is not a dire emergency, however you're having trouble finding a rescue group, etc., etc. Back Dog is healthy, friendly, neutered, on and on about all his good points. Then hit the negative about "acting out" because he's so lonely missing your brother and how he'll be wonderful for a new family. That's where we are for now, stay tuned for updates. Please send this along to every animal person on your lists. We could all find ourselves in the same situation one day. If you have a home for Black Dog, I will forward your contact info to Eileen. Also, I'd like to add your ideas and success stories. Use Adopt Me as your subject line: MarthaJones1@aol.com If I don't reply in a day or two, please try again. Apparently, "Maybe we'll deliver, or maybe we won't," is still aol's motto. One more thing ... this was to a friend, after mentioning a friend who mentioned her new female was in heat: Tell her I hope she not planning on pups. Especially not "to calm her down." That's complete crap, old wives tale. Ask any woman, sure ... surrounded by a of screaming brats ... there's the ideal state of bliss. If the dog's already been nailed, spay will take care of abortion. I don't care if she has papers, probably doesn't considering where she came from (a swap meet). Either way, she is not a breeder, therefore has no business even thinking about it. Every litter will be responsible for that many deaths as in going down in shelters to make room for all the pups everybody was so sure all their friends wanted. And even if they do find homes, each eliminates one for shelter/rescue adoptees. On top of that, no matter how loveable and adorable the unfortunate mama is, identical reproduction is genetically impossible. Do your kids look/act exactly like you? You may even be surprised by a throw back to an old weird Uncle Harold. I'm not talking only mutts here - accidents happen in the "best" of families. Put it however you want, she should know better. So should everybody else but they don't. More myth-busting: http://www.therealmartha.com/puppiesaresocu/index.htm More critter pages: http://www.therealmartha.com/CritterIndex/index.htm ~ a little bit of everything from pure silly to tackling the serious issues. |